Sejauh manakah kejujuran kita?

Pagi tadi sewaktu menyelak akhbar, terbaca tentang satu tinjauan antarabangsa mengenai kejujuran warga dunia.

Wartawan majalah Reader’s Digest sengaja meninggalkan 690 telefon bimbit di 30 tempat awam di 32 bandar raya di seluruh dunia untuk menguji orang ramai.

Mereka menghubungi nombor telefon berkenaan dan melihat jika ada orang menjawabnya, mengambil telefon bimbit itu dan cuba menghubungi nombor yang sudah diprogramkan atau sekadar memasukkannya ke dalam poket.

Walaupun ini bukanlah satu kajian yang bersifat saintifik, tetapi hasil menarik yang ingin saya kongsi bersama adalah…Kuala Lumput berada di tangga tercorot. Daripada 30 telefon , hanya 13 yang dipulangkan berbanding bandaraya yang lain seperti Ljubljana, Slovenia iaitu 29 yang dipulangkan atau Toronto 28 yang dipulangkan.

Klik untuk lihat carta kedudukan bandaraya

Jujurkah kita? Kalau kita tak jujur, kenapa kita sering mempertikaikan kejujuran orang lain… mengharapkan orang lain berlaku jujur pada diri kita….Jujur adalah salah satu nilai moral dalam Islam. Fikirkanlah…

Life is like an ocean. The waves may be very calm one day and the next day there may be a storm. Life is not like a mountain that remains steady forever. Right from our childhood we find the times changing. Sometimes everything looks going perfectly. Otherwise everything goes wrong. Why and what to do about this?

Some of us call this our fate. They accept that whatever happens is destined. Such people may be very calm. Some of those who believe in fate are also very inactive. They accept whatever comes their way without making any effort to fight the situation. Certainly one can believe in fate. But that should not stop us to act positively? How to act in tough times?

Some of us think that they are left with nothing when tough times come. But that is not true. You may be facing the toughest time, but you are alive. That is an asset. If you are healthy, that is another asset. If your family is supporting you, that is one more asset. You have friends? Add them as your assets. Write down everything you have as an asset. This kind of list gives us positive inspiration. We feel that all is not lost. That is very important. To come out of the hopelessness is the first major step we should take during tough times.

Tough times test us our attitude. We must fight them out!

When you’re feeling down and depress…. think this

As I jumped off the building… I saw the known loving couple at level 10 are hitting each other

“The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want”- Ben Stein

Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do, it’s not about whether you’re good or not, it’s not a reflection of you, it’s a balanced relationship between people. That doesn’t mean it’s always balanced at every moment. Sometimes you “need a friend” and other times it’s the other way. It’s a trust that’s returned.

When I was younger and thought I was in love, a friend said it’s not love unless it’s returned. Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there’s a lot of love around friendship. I learned that love isn’t even something about two people, it’s a state of being for one person. You aren’t in love, you are love. You are, whether you acknowledge it or not. The heart that’s pumping blood through your body is an act of love, 24 hours a day, whether you’re Mother Teresa or Adolf Hitler. (Sorry for the extreme example.)

There’s a world of difference between being a friend and being a fan. I’ve heard people who I’ve never met say we’re friends. And then of course when I do something they don’t like, I’ve betrayed the supposed friendship.

They’re living in a dreamworld. The more popular my weblog has become the more people have this dream. It’s very puzzling to be the object in the middle of this swirl of emotions, I say object because my job isn’t to be truthful, my job is to be who you think I should be. Of course that’s not friendship, that’s torture.

OK….Commercial break lagi…kaya la blog aku kalo asik wat iklan je kan..kan…!!!

Big event!
Futsal Red Diva Vs BURberry

Date : 11th August 2007, Saturday

Time: 730pm,surau disediakan

Venue: Sports Planet, Ampang

(location map)

Match:
1 hour game (red hot chilly mama is sponsoring for 1 hour game, but if we wanna go for 2 hours, everyone will chip in – everyone agree?)

Referree:
No need coz No rules

First Aid Kit:
Please bring yr own, think doctor mental or doctor yang tiada kaitan pun boleh rawat korang la kalo injured.

Drinks:
Sila bawa sendiri, kalo red hot chilly mama wants to sponsor the 1 carton of 100plus, thank you.

Colours to recognize:
Players wt Red shirt – definitely lah for the gang of Kak Red

White shirt wt colourful of pants :
BURberry team lead by Hannan

Supporters :
Wear as per your team concept lah

Colourful colours of yr shirts :
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO panjang

Dinner after the event (just an option) :
Captain of BURberry agreed that we both will not be sponsoring any of it, so it s on yr own

Datanglah beramai² untuk memeriahkan aktiviti yang gempaQ abad ini, lihatlah betapa gigihnya captain of BURberry yang balik ke Malaysia semata² untuk mengugat kedivaan Kak Red!

Jie ~ Lesen tak lulus untuk keluar malam…..ada penaja untuk siaran langsung kat espn starsports?