Suami saya merajuk sikit pagi tadi. Sikit sangat. memang salah dia pun tapi saya bukan jenis menjawap. Bila dia mula pok pek pok pek, saya diamkan saja. ( Tip no#1 – Rahsia Rumahtangga – kalau seorang bercakap, seorang lagi kena diam ) Walaupun saya tahu 95% itu salah dia, tapi biarlah dia lepaskan geram sorang-sorang…. kalau dilawan pun bukan dapat piala.

Selepas dia pergi kerja, saya pun teruskan rutin harian seperti biasa. Saya pergi kelas. Hari ini baca kitab Hidayatul Sobian mukasurat 17. Kelas kami mula baca kitab ni sejak bulan Disember 2005, hampir 4 tahun baru mukasurat 17. Murid tua yang belajar , memang lambat sikit nak dapat – berselang seli dengan kitab-kitab lain sebenarnya.

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When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving advice,

you have not done what I asked.

When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way,

you are trampling on my feelings.

When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problems,

you have failed me, strange as that may seem.

Listen!

All I ask is that you listen; not talk or do – just hear me.

And when that’s clear, the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice.

Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.

Perhaps that’s why prayer works,sometimes for some people because God is mute,

and doesn’t try to give advice and try to fix things.

God just listens and let’s you work it out for youself.

So please listen and just hear me.

And if you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn

and

I’ll listen to you.

©Kujie – bukan merajuk cuma sibuk! ’sibuk’ tu coping mechanism kepada merajuk..bila merajuk…..buat2 la sibuk

p/s – Writer Unknown

Tiba-tiba isteri merajuk
Pandai-pandailah memujuk
Buka telinga, tajamkan pendengaran , amati suaranya
Teliti dengan hati yang berseni
Rasional atau emosi?

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